One misnomer people often apply to the act of sex is "Making Love". When we are swinging or playing with people outside of our relationship there is no love between Whitney and the other guy. Only pure carnal lust. She loves me. And one of the reasons that is so is because I'm very secure about myself. Watching her fuck someone else doesn't threaten me at all.

I know there are those who may say that she could fall in love with the other guy during one of our sexcapades. To that I say if she did then she would be very shallow and I know that she isn't. We've been together for a long time and love each other dearly. To fall in love with someone you found on Criagslist and met for a romp while your man watched would be beneath her and any self respecting person. Sure, she might want to fuck the guy again, and I'll be there watching again. Then we will be on our own and talk about it and fuck like high schoolers.

This sort of lifestyle is absolutely not for the insecure. We have been doing it for a long time and talk about things to be sure we're comfortable. If there is the least bit of aprehension for either of us then we don't go through with it. To date we have never had to cancel a good fuck session.

If anyone wants advice about doing this sort of thing write to us. You can ask to be answered by me (Vince) or Whitney, or both. We will be glad to let you know what we know.